The Francis situation:

this guy hates my guts and has never had the balls to tell me in person.
wants to sock me in my sleep. wants to be friends again with mike but doesn't realize its too late.

i used to carpool with this guy to pierce, 6 am i used to wait for him to pick me up, and even though he almost always was running late, i was still his friend.
i went clubbing with him, met his family, he even drove me back to my house when i got off the plane and was lugging my luggage from the taxi.

i think its because of that one blog i did where i said i had more fun at yoshinoya afterwards than at his club.

and he still holds it against me that i said something jokingly about his mom 40 years ago. i said sorry, what more can i do, i met her in person a few times and showed her nothing but respect.

get over it man. if thats all you have holding against me, you're a little drama starved. and if theres more, how would i know, you've never told me.

if you just don't like me, fine.

if you ever want to talk this over, just give me a call, and we can still be cool again.

but if you want to just fight me....
just name the place, we can settle this. but you're friends can't help you there, and i hope you still remember your aikido, if you're going to fight me, you're going to need it. i hope i don't mess up, go too far, and accidently kill you with my bare hands.