I have explained the butting heads theory to my friends. My ideas seem to be like novelty food, interesting for a while, but nobody ever really catches on and starts liking it enough for it to become mainstream.

Jack has alluded to me the true nature of his co-ed service fraternity, as he calls it.
Sorry if I'm being snide, I'm still sceptical of it all.

But it has these virtues, from the boy-scouts, he says, which I find honorable indeed.
Be a Leader
Be a Friend
Be of Service

I'm not as hard headed as Jeff. So I shall think about it.
Good for a future job, he says, maybe meet a girl he says.
Join the army he says, see the world he says.